SPEAKING TREE
Every one seeks love and acceptance in
a relationship
but many times it doesn't
happen that way and even your closest people are the one who have hurt you very
badly. Well, it can be part of your karmic cycle and the best way to resolve is
to free yourself from such emotions. Forgive them and walk away. Here when i
say - walk away; it doesn't mean that you walk away physically while carrying
all the emotional baggage. Aim is to resolve mentally & walk away emotionally.
No rent free space in your mind to such relations which give you pain. No
expectations from such people in your life.
Know that when the love is over
Real love should be a peaceful,
beautiful experience filled with mutual respect, joy and space to grow. If
you’re hypnotized by someone who controls, mistreats or lies to you, but whom
you still refuse to believe would deliberately hurt you – you’re in a karmic
relationship. HERE you have to learn to take charge of your life, be brave and
break this pattern to release yourself from this debt.
Not really so easy to walk away
Since we all human beings
invest so much emotionally in our relationships that it is really difficult to
do away with but then ONE really have to know - that it is time to walk away
just because the debt is over and now is the time to evolve further.
Life is very very precious
Your life is a great gift of
god. Never waste it for any one. Generally it happens so in love when one
person is madly in love and the other just doesn't care. It can happen in other
relationships also like parents & children. It is the time to understand
and be on your own as an individual.
You are a soul
You are a soul on your own
karmic journey. Never ever let anyone to abuse you. Love thy self, respect thy
self as you are a wonderful creation of lord.
This is what is realization
In every relationship there has
to be a limit (maryada) which doesn't need to be crossed and if it happens so
again & again; it is the time to sit & think of to take a curative
decision.
Never regrett if someone has walked
away from your
Being in mentally and
emotionally draining relationships it is better that the person has walked away
and has left you alone to think and be yourself as it is how you should have
been try and make yourself complete once again!
We evolve thru pain & sorrows
There is none who has not paid
the price to be someone whom world remembers long after they are gone.
You are what you are
Well, we all make mistakes, try
to see self thru other's glasses but always remember you are most beautiful as
god has made you; so be what you are the original self
Never pass judgement on others
Life can really throw
challenges on many, yet behind smiles there may be eyes full of tears so be
sympathetic before you pass a judgement about others and finally you have learn
to say -- not anymore.
It is a decision and has to be
taken by you to save your sanity.
Love & forgiveness go long way to
release you from
Life is like a train ride - you
must try to stay 'on track'. If you derail - you get back on track again. Your
train could come to a split along the way. You will have choices to make. You
could make the right choice and continue along your way or you could make the
wrong choice and your train will go around and around in a circle - wheel of
karma! In the end - we all go through the Tunnel on our journey back HOME! Let
your Tunnel be the Tunnel of Love!
Some times in life you have to be firm
You have to be firm to save and
the other person too and resolve the debts and learn to realise your own worth
& purpose on this planet.
1 comment:
each word is so apt.Awesomse writeup..
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