Sunday, July 6, 2008

Organise your thoughts, emotions and energies

Sadhguru
Everything we have created on this planet was essentially first created in our minds. All that you see which is human work on this planet first found expression in the mind, then it got manifested in the outside world.
A well established mind, a mind which is in a state of samyukthi, is referred to as a Kalpavriksha or wishing tree. If you organise your mind to a certain level, it, in turn, organises the whole system. Your body, your emotions, your energies, everything gets organised in that direction. If you do this you are a Kalpavriksha yourself. Anything that you wish will happen.
Once we are empowered with a potential like this, it is very important that our physical, emotional, mental and energy actions are controlled and properly directed. If it is not so, we become destructive, self-destructive.
Right now, that is our problem. The technology which is supposed to make our life beautiful and easy has become the source of several problems. What should have been a boon is turning out to be a curse. If life has to happen the way you think it should happen, first of all how you think and with how much focus you think, how much stability is there in your thought and how much reverberance is there in the thought process - all these will determine if your thought will become a reality or not.
Today, modern science is proving that the whole of existence is just a reverberation of energy. It is a vibration. Similarly, your thought is also a vibration. If you generate a powerful thought and let it out, it will always manifest itself.
To create what you really care for, first, what you want must be well manifested in your mind. Once you can maintain a steady stream of thought without changing direction, definitely this is going to happen in your life. It will definitely manifest as a reality in your life.
So, either you make this human form into a Kalpavriksha or you make it into one big mess. You must be clear as to what is it that you really want. If you do not know what you want, the question of creating it doesn't arise.
What every human being wants is to live joyfully, he wants to live peacefully, in terms of its relationship he wants to be loving and affectionate. All that any human being is seeking for is pleasantness within himself, pleasantness around him.
Once your mind gets organised, the way you think is the way you feel: your emotions will get organised. Once your thought and emotion are organised, your energies will go the same way. Then your very body will get organised. Once all these four are organised in one direction, your ability to create and manifest what you want is phenomenal.
You have the power to create, you are the Creator, in so many ways. The whole technology of Isha Yoga is just about this - transforming yourself from being just a piece of creation to the Creator himself. This is not in search of God, this is in search of becoming a God. This is not in search of Divine, this is in search of becoming Divine.

Detach your Service from expectation

The karma yogi avoids the chaotic activity of selfish desires; he also avoids the apparent inaction of total non-wanting. He leads a life of selfless service, in which there is not the slightest alloy of any personal motive and which furthers the release of divinity in all phases of life.
Service, even when it is utterly selfless, ought to be guided by spiritual understanding; for selfless service, when unintelligently handled, often creates chaos and complications. It could even be the opposite of the desired effect.
The real danger in service lies more in the possibility of your rendering it from a false motive than in making a mistake about the spiritual demands of the situation. If you render service in order to oblige a person and if you feel proud of doing it, you are not only doing spiritual harm to the recipient of your service but also to yourself.
The consciousness that 'I am obliging someone' is the first to occur during the process of serving; but it can be annulled by the contrary thought, 'I am obliged by being given this opportunity of serving'. This latter thought facilitates the attitude of detachment and secures freedom from the bondage of good actions.
Service based upon comprehensive understanding is not only selfless and adjusted to the spiritual demands of the recipient but is rendered with complete detachment. Such service takes the aspirant to the goal most rapidly.
For most people the idea of service is inextricably bound with securing certain definite results in the objective world. For them service consists of removal of human suffering or illiteracy or other difficulties and handicaps that thwart the flourishing of individual or social life. This is the type of service rendered by aspirants, politicians, social reformers and other good people. Though this type of service is of immense spiritual importance, it is in its very nature unending. Therefore, as long as the idea of service is tied to the idea of results, it is inevitably fraught with a sense of incompleteness.
There can be no realisation of Infinity through the pursuit of a never-ending series of consequences. On the other hand, service that comes after truth realisation is spontaneous expression of spiritual understanding of the true nature of the Self. And though it also brings about important results in the objective world, it is in no way complicated by any longing for them.
The sun shines and the rain falls. In the same way the God-realised person also lives a life of self-offering because of the basic structure of divine life that is at the heart of Reality and not because he longs to achieve anything. His life is not a reaching out towards something with the hope of some kind of attainment. He is already established in the fullness of the realisation of the Infinite. The overflow of the God-realised being is a blessing to life in other forms and actually brings about their uplift from the material as well as spiritual point of view. There is a vast gulf between service before truth realisation and service after realising it.

Path to Self-awareness

by Lois Grant
Knowing what is right and what is wrong in your own inner consciousness is insufficient. It is not the knowing of truth that transforms a person; it is the doing of truth that has an impact on you and on the other people that you interact with. You may know that it is inappropriate to think selfishly and look out for your own best interests first, but your inner emotions may drive you to be blinded to the needs of others.
You may know that it is against your basic truth to judge another individual, but your inner emotions may cause you to look at that person and make a judgment because of the effect you are allowing them to have on your life. You may understand that all of God's creatures were created equal, but that doesn't stop you, on an emotional level, from feeling that the human race is the most important life form on the planet.
The discrepancy lies not in a lack of information, for the information is available on a world-wide basis for those who would seek it, evaluate it, and accept it as their own; the discrepancy lies in the ability to integrate Universal Law into your lifestyle. Awareness of the self does not just focus into the positive aspects of a personality, or the positive aspects of skills and talents that you brought with you into this lifetime, but into the negative as well; it is only when the positive is weighed against the negative, and the balanced perspective is used as a guidepost in integrating higher consciousness into the self that the influence becomes apparent in your relationships and in your lifestyle.
Self-actualisation can be translated to mean, making the self actual. It means there is no difference between what you think and what you do. There is no contradiction between what you tell others and how you respond yourself. It is manifesting who you are and what you believe in on a day-to-day, consistent basis. The path is a long and solitary one, and many individuals give up. It is difficult to accept what our conscious choices in the course of a specific existence have driven us to do to other people. It is hard for us to accept that we have been selfish, or resentful, or spiteful. It is hard for us to see where we have deliberately manipulated our lives so that we have control over the people and the situations and the events within it.
It is not easy to admit that we are not the positive, smiling, loving person that we prefer to see ourselves as; when, in the course of personal growth, it becomes necessary for an individual to truly, honestly evaluate how they have interacted with their fellow human beings, the drop-out rate skyrockets.
This is unfortunate, because personal growth cannot proceed — self-awareness and self-actualisation cannot be accomplished — without a true and open acknowledgement of who we used to be and how we used to live our lives, no matter how unpleasant that panorama may be. This does not mean that we need to spend years of our lives suffering regret and remorse for the wrong we have done in their lives to other people. It does mean that we need to take a reasonable amount of time to look back and to evaluate honestly what was really at play in any particular situation, where the two parties were really coming from, and where each conducted themselves with less than universal love.
We cannot change the past; we cannot undo the influence that we have upon other people by our thoughts and our feelings and our reactions, but we can learn from that experience and make a personal commitment never to treat anyone with that lack of respect again. If that person is still in our life, we can have the grace to apologise, and share our learning experience, and say, "I'm sorry that i used to be like that. I want to be like this, now, and i hope that you will help."
It is only by acknowledging our past weaknesses, and sharing our future aspirations, that we can experience the support and encouragement of others on our journey to self-actualisation. If we are not willing to admit that we have ever made a mistake, ever reacted inappropriately, ever deliberately hurt someone, then we cannot admit that we need to change, or that we need other people's help in doing so. It is, from a soul evolution perspective, self-defeating behaviour to remain in situations made from the lower consciousness that create less than fulfiling situations and relationships in our lives.

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Punn

Punn, which means thread in Kashmiri, literary continues unbroken even in exile. Punn is a festival that is celebrated by the Kashmiri Pandits with much aplomb and religious fervour in the month of Bhadon (August/September). The festival falls on the Ganesh Chaturthi (Vinayaka Tsoram) day, with worship of Lakshmi and Ganesha being a common feature of this festival.
After exodus, when many festivals and customs have lost their original charm, Punn festival is still celebrated with the same devotion with which it was celebrated in Kashmir. Perhaps it has something to do with its simplicity and the social message it carries.
Most Kashmiri Pandits remember by heart the story told during Punn Puja mostly by a elder of the household, which is quite similar to the Satyanaryana Katha. The much loved story begins``It was the month of Bhadon, Venayak Chorum te Athwar (fourth lunar day and Sunday), a long time ago, in Kashmir there was a Hindu king ruling comfortably''.
The special feature of this festival is the Roth (sweet thick pancakes fried in ghee) that are prepared and later after puja distributed among relatives, neighbours and friends for ushering in prosperity and auspiciousness..
In Kashmir where Pandits used to live in distinct localities far away from each other, Punn festival also helped in keeping social links active as each household had to distribute Naveed (prasad) of this function in the form of Roth to all their neighbours, relatives and even strangers.
According to the renowned Kashmiri scholar Dr Shashi Shekhar Toshkhani, Punn festival was originally associated with the spinning of newly produced cotton and worshipping the twin agrarian local goddesses, Vibha and Garbha to whom roths were offered. Though scholars dispute that Kashmir is not suitable for growing cotton, but the traditions seems to have preserved the earlier agricultural practices in codified rituals, which suggest that cotton might have been grown in Kashmir in the past.
The twin goddesses later seem to have merged into one another assuming the identity of the folk deity Beeb Garabh Maj (Beeb Garabh Mother), which is represented by a small brass water pot (gadwa) which is placed in the centre of the place where Puja is performed. A cotton thread is tied to neck of the water pot and a handful of runner grass (dramun) is kept inside the pot.
The Story:
There lived a poor Brahmin family comprising of Brahmin, his wife and beautiful young daughter. Brahmin used to support his family by pittance collections he used to get as Bhikshya. The daughter used to go to the forest for collection of firewood. One day during the month of Bhadoon Shakula Paksh on 4th day, when she was in the forest, she saw some Devis descending from Heaven. She hid herself behind a tree and was keen to watch them and to know why they have come to the forest. She saw Devis cardooning off an area and cleaning it thoroughly. They Devis started kneading wheat flour and mixed sugar and ghee and cardamom etc in it and then they baked it on hot plate.. After finishing Devis looked around to find a girl, as they could not perform Pooja without presence of a girl. They took the notice of Brahmin girl hiding behind the tree and called her over. They gave her a bath and a new dress to wear. After finishing pooja they gave her Roth prasad and some money as Dakshana. After this the Devis left for their abode. The Brahmin girl was dazed with what she witnessed and was happy to receive new clothes and some money. She went to her home where her parents scolded and thrashed her on her possessions. They thought that she has got it some ill means. The Brahmin girl narrated to them entire thing that she had witnessed but her parents did not trust her. Days passed by and the routine of their hardships followed.
Brahmin girl developed a desire within to do same thing what Devis had done on the same auspicious day next year. She started preparations for the same in advance. Having no money with her, she collected cow dung where from she separated wheat grain and collected them over for some days, dried them and converted them into flour. She could not afford sugar or ghee and thus made roth without these materials on the auspicious day after cleaning the area etc as Devis had done. This she was doing with absolute faith, which was being witnessed by Devis in their abode and they were happy with such dedicated faith of Brahmin girl. Devis decided to reward her. The Brahmin girl performed pooja of Roths, which she had kept under a cover. After pooja when she removed the cover she was astonished to see Roths converted into golden cakes. She could not believe her stars but knew it was a miracle possible only by blessing of Devis. Thus she thanked Devis and rushed to her home with prized possession. On seeing golden cakes, her parents locked her in a room and thrashed her to maximum thinking that this time she has done some bigger crime. The girl kept on pleading and pleading and told them everything she had done, but her parents did not believe her. During the night Devis came in the dream of her parents and told them about what girl had done and that she should be treated nicely. On listening to Devis, the parents blessed the girl with love and affection. Thus the status of Brahmin family improved and they kept on repeating this Roth puja every year. Devis kept on blessing them with prosperity and wealth.
Years passed by, and one day the King of the state was returning from hunting expedition when he took notice of Brahmin girl who was relaxing under a tree in her courtyard. Her youth and charm fascinated the king and he decided to marry her. He summoned her father to the court next day and asked for his daughter's hand. The marriage was solemnised with great pomp and show and the Brahmin girl became queen of the state.
When the Roth day was approaching, she asked the King to arrange the materials for the performance of Roth Pooja. King asked his minister to do the necessary arrangements. The Minister ill advised the King that it was just a fantasy of the queen and it was not necessary. He did not believe that she could have afforded the material that the queen had asked for while she was not married. He suggested that it was her greed that she is demanding such a huge amount of materials for doing some Puja of which he had not heard of. The king was convinced by Minister's logic and refused to give any material to the queen.
The queen was very upset and she pleaded with the king. She cried and begged of King without any luck. She went to Puja room and begged of Devis to pardon her for no fault of hers.
During the night King dreamt of Devis who warned him that he would lose his kingdom next day as he had not fulfilled the necessary arrangements requested by the queen. Very next day, neighbouring state king invaded his kingdom and he was dethroned and exiled. He realised his mistake and asked his wife to pardon him. His wife in turn asked him to seek pardon from Devis and to take a pledge not to do such things in future. He prayed and prayed and prayed. Finally Devis took mercy on him and blessed him since he vowed to perform this pooja irrespective of whatever condition he would be in. Next day the faithful soldiers of the King who got wind of where the king was hiding came to see him. They assembled in large numbers and worked out a plan to conquer back their kingdom. In next few days the King with the help of his soldiers regained his kingdom. Ever since the king and entire state performed the Roth Pooja every year.
Concluding prayer:
Now we pray Almighty to bless us in the same way as they blessed the Brahmin girl and to strive in us a true, dedicated & strong faith in the pooja.

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Rangoli

You will often find beautiful, colorful patterns being made with sand or wet paint on the ground and walls within or outside houses in India during festivities. This style of home decoration is called Rangoli. It's an art form practiced by the Indians since ages. The name 'rangoli' is derived from the words 'rang' meaning colors and 'aavalli' meaning row of colors. The designs used in drawing rangoli generally include geometrical patterns with lines, dots, squares, circles, triangles, the swastika, lotus, trident, fish, conch shell and even footprints.
Rangoli is a very popular in the Indian subcontinent and is known by different names in different regions of India. It is called Alpana in Bengal, Aripana in Bihar, Madana in Rajasthan, Rangoli in Gujarat, Karnataka and Maharashtra, Chowkpurana in Uttar Pradesh, Kolam in the South Indian states of Kerala and Tamil Nadu and Muggu in Andhra Pradesh. While the power rangoli is more popular in the south Indian states, the North Indians prefer Alpana, which comprises of wet paint.
There are many folktales about the origin of the traditional art of rangoli in India. One such story traces its history to a legend recorded in the Chitralakshana, the earliest Indian treatise on painting. Long ago, the son of a renowned king's priest died. Lord Brahma, the creator of the universe, requested the king to make a painting of the boy so that he could turn him alive again. This is how the first rangoli was made. The motifs employed in making traditional Rangoli are usually inspired by nature and thus, consist of peacocks, flowers, humans, trees, etc.
Traditionally natural dyes like bark of trees, leaves, flower petals and turmeric powder were used to prepare Rangoli. However, these days, a number of colorful synthetic dyes have also come into the market. When a thin layer of the dye or the coloring material is used for making Rangoli, then the patterns look flat. A 3-D effect can be provided to the designs by using different sized grains like pulses, cereals, etc. Earlier such floor and wall decorations were done only on auspicious occasions.
However, today, any occasion, be it birthday, wedding or some other parties, etc, is good enough. You will also see rangoli almost everywhere in India during Diwali festival. The art form holds great religious significance. It also enhances the beauty of the surroundings and spreads joy and happiness all around. In Indian culture, our guests occupy a very special place and rangoli serves as an expression of this warm hospitality.

Aarti

The Hindu ritual of aarti accrues from the ancient Vedic concept of fire ceremony or the 'homa'. Generally, one or more wicks made of cotton, or thin cloth strip, is soaked in ghee or camphor, lighted and offered to the deity. The term 'aarti' may also refer to the traditional Hindu devotional songs that are sung while the fire ritual is being performed. Apart from the national anthem of India, perhaps, the only other song sung popularly and lovingly across all age and social groups and regions is the aarati.
Though arti may be sung differently in different parts of the Indian subcontinent, the core intention never varies. All aarti songs signify the highest form of love for God. As per Indian beliefs and tradition, worshiping God through 'bhava' or emotion is the highest form of worship. And in arti, both the singing of the traditional hymn, or the devotional song, and the fire serve to prevent the deflection of the worshipper's concentration from the act.
In Sanskrit, the term aarti can be broken up into two words - "aa' meaning towards and "rati" meaning the highest love for God. Traditionally, aarati is done two or three times a day, at the conclusion of a puja, bhajan or havan. It is a mandatory ritual performed on all auspicious occasions of Hindus. The aarti thali, which contains diya, flowers, incense and akshata, is circulated in front of the deity and arti song is sung by all members present there. When arti is performed before God, it is believed that the plate and the light get blessed by the deity.
The pandit, or the priest, passes on the arti plate from one person to another, present there, who cup the flickering fire lightly with their down-turned hands. Then, they put their hands over the flame and then touch their forehead, as a gesture of seeking holy blessings. The plate on which the aarati is performed is usually made of silver, bronze or copper. Aarti is also performed in front of a person, either as a welcome gesture or to ward off bad influences from him. Infact, the whole purpose of arti is to ward off the evil spirits and bad omens.
In India, the aarti is also performed before people of high status, little kids during certain ceremonies, on people embarking or returning from a long journey (especially if it's a pilgrimage) and on a newly married couple when they enter their house for the first time, etc. The arti is also performed on some newly acquired land and before initiating some pertinent chore. There are different types of arti for different Indian deities and often arti contains important snippets about them.

Janeu Ceremony

Janeu is a consecrated thread that is worn by each and every Hindu Brahmin of India. This holy thread of 'Janeo' suggests the development of a male, from a young boy to a man. It is believed that a boy cannot be surmised as "Dvija" (twice born) until he wears the janeu. Besides the Brahmins, Janeo thread is also worn by the Kshatriyas and Vaishyas. The type of Janeu is different for different caste groups or sects of people of the Indian subcontinent.
One is Brahmgandh Janeu (with 5 knots or 3 knots), which is meant for Brahmins and the other is Vishnugandh Janeu (with one knot), meant for other classes. In case a Brahmin desires to become scholarly in the Vedas, he must wear janeu at 5 years of age. If a Kshatriya desires to gain strength, he should wear janeo at 6 and if a Vaishya desires for success, he must wear the Janeu at 8 years of age. Janeu is generally made of cotton thread; however Kshatriya and Vaishya wear threads made out of hempen and wool respectively.
Janeu (Thread) Ceremony
Brahmins celebrate the development of a boy through "Upanayanam Samskara" (sacred thread ceremony). The ceremony is generally observed between the ages of seven and fourteen. In case the ceremony could not take place due to any reason all through this age period, then it is required to be done before the marriage. The purpose of thread ceremony is to prepare a young man to share the responsibilities of elders. The thread is worn by the man in the company of a group chant of 'Gayatri' mantra. The thread is twisted in upward direction to make certain that 'Sattwaguna' (good quality of truth) prevails. The ceremony also suggests that the wearer of 'Janeu' can participate in the family rituals, from now onwards.
Significance of three strands in Janeu
Brahmins use 'Janeu' thread with three strands. These three strands of 'Janeo' have been studied many a times and different personalities gave several opinions regarding this tradition. To some people, the three strands stand for the Hindu Trinity of Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh. Others interpreted it as symbolical of Mahasarasvati, Mahalakshmi and Mahakali. Many people believed it to be related with past, present and future.
A number of persons stated it to be representative of three qualities - sattva, rajas and tamas. A few considered the three strands as sign of three states-wakefulness, dream and deep sleep. Some of them mentioned it to signify three dimensions of Heaven (swarga), Earth (mrityuloka) and Nether Regions (pataloka). Out of all opinions, the most logical is janeu's account with Ida, pingala and susumna nadi, through which the 'kundalini' (hidden) energy reveals in 'prana' and realization.
How to wear Janeu at different occasions
Janeu is a not an ordinary thread, its sanctity is regarded to get disturbed if it is not worn properly. Here are given different methods to wear Janeu at different occasions.
·         To attend or perform any auspicious ceremony, one should wear 'janeu' hanging from the left shoulder (Upaviti).
·          For attending or performing inauspicious event, one should wear 'janeu' hanging from the right shoulder (Prachnaviti).
·                In case the person wears 'janeu' round the neck like a garland, then, he is called as 'Niviti'.
·          While going for daily ablutions or doing impure tasks, the holy thread must be raised and its upper part ought to be put behind ear.
·                Males and females both can wear 'janeu', yet females should wear it around the neck.
·            Following a birth or death in the family, 'janeu' should be removed, again a new thread ought to be worn after 15 days of event.
·                One must replace the old or broken thread with a new thread.

Monday, February 11, 2008

Whither Kashmiri Pandits

Prof. Gopi Kishen Muju
Introduction
There has been an old saying in Kashmir: "If one door gets closed God opens ten doors", but one has to be cautious and vigilant in moving through these doors, make right choice and judicious and proper use. Almost same thing has happened with the displaced Kashmiri Pandits from the Valley, especially in the vocational and economic fields. When after exodus the young and the healthy, sick and infirm, daughters and daughters –in-law were lodged in "migrant" cells , constructed over uneven land full of boulders and stones and surrounded by bushes, shrubs and thorns, to face the scorching heat of summer and suffer under the devastating sheets of water during rainy season turning the camps into flood hit localities, experiencing snake and scorpion bites , sun strokes and heat strokes unknown to the community and so on, it was quite heartening to see the young boys and girls of the community accepting the challenge with fortitude. Keeping in tune with the community's traditions and ethos of gaining education at any cost these young souls would be seen studying in these dingy unhealthy environs with determination. They kept the community's inherent tradition of seeking knowledge alive against all odds. Appreciating these young souls struggling against all odds to pursue their education it was remarked by an important person "How can this community die". 
The exodus worked as an electric shock for the community and there was a gradual country wide awakening of the community organizations in various parts of the country to help the displaced population and put it back on rails as far as possible. Reverberations were seen at the global level even. Voluntary social and religious organizations and some with political affiliations too came forward to take out the displaced from the morass. A strong community feeling exhibited itself all around.
"Migrants" as a Class
Gradually the word "migrant" became almost synonymous with the K.P. community, a term to be looked down upon as a separate category "Oh, he is a poor migrant". For some non-displaced K. Ps the term became a term of humiliation and degradation and would immediately retort "No, I am not a migrant, I have been here for decades". How shocking and shameful that even in some matrimonial advertisements it would be mentioned "migrants need not apply". What an apartheid attitude! However, it was stopped after some protests and objections. Later on a distinction was made between pre-1990 migrant and the 1990 displaced at the social level, though the government never called these 1990 militancy victims as displaced or internally displaced lest they become entitled to certain benefits under the UN Charter, and never took cognizance of pre-1990 migrants as "migrants" as per its norms set up for 1990 displaced (wrongly termed as migrants. As some relief and other help started coming to the 1990 displaced the pre-1990 migrants brought in this distinction of migrants and displaced by claiming that they were the real migrants, just to use the term to their benefits. Personal interests surfaced predominantly. Surprisingly those very non-displaced, migrant Kashmiri Pandits who looked down upon the 1990 displaced victims of militancy (called "migrants" by the Government) gradually started getting themselves registered as "migrants" for some immediate or unforeseen future benefits. Surprisingly the government practically recognizes only those few thousand displaced families as "migrants" who are putting up in the camps provided by the government and are used as show pieces and exhibits for different political purposes. Others (non-camp displaced) living in rented accommodation do not exist for the government. 
However, with the passage of time the distinction disappeared to a large extent, and now after nearly two decades of exodus the community seems to be united on certain common agendas- most important being that the entire community should be declared as an internally displaced one as even pro-1990 migrants had to leave under pressure and unfavorable conditions and mainly due to economic reasons, and discriminatory policies of the government. This is evident from the recently made petition before the Honorable Supreme Court by the AIKS, in which it has been demanded that the entire community be declared as internally displaced. Also most of the community organisations in the country are headed by pre-1990 migrants. K. P. Community has now become almost a global concept, and, as long as the community continues to be in forced exile having the status as "migrants" and the Government does not take concrete measures to rehabilitate it properly, problems of some sections will continue to haunt it seeking attention and demanding remedy.
Education
Education, as is well known, has been the hallmark of the K .P. Community; though at times it became a cause for jealousy, envy, anger and even its victimization. A K.P. would literary go without food, good clothing, sell family gold or borrow money, but would not risk his children growing uneducated and illiterate. It was education which came to the rescue of the community from time to time, and after each exodus, to rise and flourish, including the present one also, supposed to be the seventh during the past several centuries especially since the advent of Islam in Kashmir. 
After the exodus of 1989-90, educating the young ones under unfavorable conditions was a big challenge for the community. Of course, here too hurdles were created at social and political levels in the admission process to the local institutions forcing the government to declare these displaced students under a different and separate category as "migrant". A new set up came up for these displaced people. These "migrant schools" were set up and housed in camps where hardly any facilities were available. "Migrant" teachers and others were adjusted in these migrant schools and college to teach migrant boys and girls. 
Admission to P.G courses, professional and technical institutions was considerably restricted. Those aspiring for higher education were left to fend for themselves. With poor teaching facilities and restricted admissions to Kashmir University only there was poor progress in educational field at these levels. 
The fate of Government employees was no better. They would not be adjusted in local offices and institutions, as this would "swell" up the number of staff and probably "effect" the "smooth" working and functioning of these establishments and even be a cause for conflicts. The "migrant" employees were treated on (forced) leave to enable them to earn their salary as "leave salary", (by enacting some extra-ordinary leave rules, not otherwise covered under any normal state service rules.) Even for this they had to struggle a lot and are not still entitled to all the benefits, otherwise due. However, some employees were adjusted as migrant employees in some institutions especially in education Department. Surprisingly the government did not think in terms of adjusting/ transferring these Kashmiri "Migrant" employees to Jammu along with their posts, which would have removed most of the grievances and difficulties, both for the government as well as the employees. Instead they were forced to avail the so-called "leave salary" and the expenditure on account of this "leave salary" was to be met from the security related expenditure paid by the Central Government, thus leaving the State budget for those adhoc employees of the Valley who were adjusted/appointed against the "migrant" posts. While about 75% "migrant" employees have attained their superannuated during these years hardly a few have been appointed from amongst the 'migrants".
A Door Opens
Fortunately after a few years of exodus the Government of Maharashtra run by Shiv Sena under the directive from Balasaheb Thakrey came to the rescue of the displaced community when it offered admission to the "migrant" students in its technical colleges. Seats were reserved for the displaced to which admission could be sought without any entrance test etc. and with some other concessions This generated a new hope. It opened a new vista for the youth of the community. An unexpected and unknown opportunity came forward and a door of hope was opened. Gradually the scheme was adopted by some other states also and eventually the Central Government too was forced to ensure reserved seats for the youth of the exiled community and issued directives to this effect to State Governments However, as the years passed it was not only the K.P. "migrant" students alone who could get such admission against "migrant quota", but students from other communities and regions became entitled to these seats as militancy had spread to other regions and people from different communities fell victims to the gun culture. Gradually seats in other professional courses and post graduate departments too were opened for the J&K migrant students. Slowly the benefit got extended and generalized and even those who were 1990 militancy effected displaced too managed to get themselves registered as migrants to get admission and other benefits. The quota came to be called "migrant quota" and was not limited to any particular community or region or group. 
With this new fields were opened which gave a lease of life to this beleaguered community. It was a boon as young talented boys and girls engineers and professional persons were produced changing the total perception. The advancement in the information technology created a new sun over the horizon, as if it was in the nature's plan. Here the displaced boys and girls especially from villages of Kashmir which had remained in seclusion, isolated and backward and even somewhat suppressed as a social class, demonstrated their hidden talent, caliber and capacity to a very high degree. Proficiency bloomed, and an unimagined dream seemed to become a reality. These young boys and girls started getting lucrative jobs with good salary in an environment of freedom, positive and healthy competitive world and felt encouraged to face these tests. They could not visualize such a rise nor could they probably aspire for better. Obviously, new doors got opened for economic advancement and progress. 
While it is quite heartening to see the young boys and girls having attained great proficiency in the fields of engineering, IT, M.B.A and some other professional courses during these years of exodus, but one feels quite depressed that there is hardly any boy or girl who goes in for competitive civil service examinations to qualify for I.A.S.; I.P.S. I.F.S., K.A.S and so on. The youth and their parents must think about these areas and related jobs as well. The community youth must strive to spread in every field and area as their future is related to these services and areas too. Though much has not been achieved in this direction, but it is never too late to venture into these fields as well. It is essential that the vision is not kept limited to the stereotypy, but other avenues and fields too need to be explored and captured. The community youth must aim not only to regain the position it had at the national level some time back but even advance more and aspire and visualize a role at global level for itself. However, in this euphoria the youth must not forget the soil where its roots have been nourished for thousands of years.
Surprise and Shock
Those forces which had been feeling jealous of the community that it had usurped almost the entire bureaucracy and lot of Government jobs and had pushed the community out with the hope to liquidate it, were not only surprised but even shocked to see the community standing on its own in adverse circumstances and progressing well in all respects and rather more rapidly than it could do in Kashmir. Observing the progress and adjustment of the community vested interests stared floating rumours" how will K.Ps come back now in view of the economic progress and job opportunities." Well they may be correct to some extent as terrorism is not showing any appreciable decline in the Valley, then there is not much appreciable change at the ground level to welcome the return of the displaced community with open arms and both the Sate and the Central Governments being confused about the situation have been apathetic towards this displaced community. Also the community is not sure about the economic avenues that can be made available to it once it returns. However, all such elements must not forget that a K.P may not return for a job but he will return because Kashmir is his motherland, place of origin and birth the land of his ancestors. A Kashmiri Pandit will definitely go back to Kashmir in spite of his economic progress and holding lucrative jobs outside the State. He cannot give up his claim over he land of his ancestors; his roots. He will definitely return to rekindle the light of hope and regenerate the cultural ethos butchered at the hands of fanatics, marauder and murderers. He will again teach, treat and heal as in the yore. He has not lost the hope or faith in himself.
K.Ps. Who Stayed Put
A few thousand K P. families still living in the Valley are in no way better off. They, very unfortunately, receive scant attention from the government or even from the community organizations, though they are the proverbial eleven odd families holding not only the community flag but the flag of Indian secularism high in the Valley against all odds. They too have essentially been dislodged from their respective original places of living and are living scattered in comparatively secured zones mainly in Srinagar and deserve to be treated as displaced and given necessary relief and other job benefits lest they too are forced to leave the valley. Government must ensure their safe, secured and economically healthy continued stay in the Valley.
Issues of very Serious Concern
(A) Inter-Caste Marriages
However, while the opening up of new job opportunities leading to economic advancement after exodus is a very healthy sign, unfortunately it has also proved somewhat disappointing to see the fall out. The community has suffered a lot as its identity and growth have been badly affected. In this process of educational and professional advancement a good number of girls have got married outside the community and the process is continuing. Though all express concern over the rate of such inter-caste and inter-community marriages in which the community is losing its girls fast yet no concrete measures are taken to give the process a halt. Some of those who think seriously about the problem even suggest that a situation may come for the community to get girls from outside the community fold for its youth to maintain some sort of balance, which in all probability would not be a healthy trend for the genetic tree of the community. Coupled with the decreasing birth rate on account of various factors including family planning and increased death rate, the community seems to be dwindling in numbers. This inter-cast marriage process has set up a serious trend, and already being a miniscule minority of a few lakh souls only it is likely to reduce its size further. Then being scattered throughout the country and even abroad, one cannot say where will all this lead the community to; this is an issue which the social scientists, thinkers, well wishers, leaders and the parents in the community have to think. A small community cannot afford such a loss.
There were cases in the past where inter-cast marriages did take place, but these stray cases were quite negligible which took place under special circumstances. Obviously no body took any serious notice of these, though most of them have subsequently felt sorry over the step. However the present day scenario looks quite disturbing, as the future of the community is in danger. If the community wants to save the situation it is essential for the parents to see that they do not contribute to the situation in any manner, even in the name of progress and advancement. Community organizations, its social activists and leadership (if they have any real hold on the community matters) too have to play an important role in halting this process; in fact a reverse process needs to be set up and put into motion by getting girls from outside into the community fold as brides, especially when the community boys are doing so well. Even the sponsoring bodies who are involved in the process of selection for admissions and placement etc; in vocational professional fields must see that the trend is stopped if they want to help the community to let it grow. The young girls who go out to study should be persuaded not to think of marriage during their study and avoid marrying outside the community, especially the non-Hindus; a trend which has very unfortunately increased with the connivance and within the knowledge of parents who feign helplessness after the damage is done. It has been reported that after these young boys and girls go for their education outside the State their parents, families hardly bother to visit them during the year and see how they are progressing. Perhaps they feel their duty is over after the boy/girl is admitted in a course and he/she will go ahead on his/her own. Parents have to ensure regular visits and communication and even a regular feed back from available sources how their wards are going on with their studies. If necessary these sponsoring bodies may take an undertaking from these trainee girls and their families to this effect. It appears that these girls, especially from poor families are lured to go in for such inter-caste and inter-community marriages by exploiting their innocence and credulous nature. Strong vigil and even some strong measures by parents and stern steps may become necessary.
It is essential to analyse and study the causes of these inter-caste marriages and role of parents, economy and other factors assessed Understanding the total scenario in all its dimensions is very important. It essentially needs providing an environment of love, affection, understanding, mutual respect and respect for the family values and one's culture. Though legally no one can stop these inter-caste or inter community marriages, and that is why people are not openly expressing any serious concern about these happenings, but a bit of social awareness, understanding and developing a sense of social responsibility, for social cohesiveness of the community can help a lot.
It is not only among those girls who study or serve outside the State that some of them are lured and marry outside the community, there are cases among other families even where these inter-caste, inter-community marriages are taking place. Keeping in view the total scenario it is very essential to identify such possible families and arrange necessary counseling to avoid future humiliation and harassment.
K. Ps are proud of their genes. It is being expressed that most of these inter-caste and inter-community marriages may be taking place under a well drawn out plan to avoid consanguine marriages in these communities and to improve their genes , as marriages within blood relations has not been found medically healthy.
(B) Divorces
The next issue which has become a cause for concern for the elders, parents and the society at large is the rate at which divorces are taking place in the community. What is despised even in the so-called advanced countries is being adopted almost without any remorse in the K.P. community. A divorce which was once looked down upon as a sorrowful event and considered a shameful act to talk about has to-day assumed disproportionate dimensions in the society at large and the K. P. community too has joined the race, it seems to beat others. It seems that the community has taken the increase in divorce rate as a matter of fact feat, a fate accompli, just like inter-caste marriages, and no immediate and effective steps are taken to stop this trend. Probably a sudden exposure to a new social milieu and economic progress coupled with equal education and equal job opportunities and parallel progress of both sexes too have added to the process of family breakdown and social disintegration. As after exodus families from different socio- cultural background have come into bondage due to various factors, including the marriage of their sons and daughters, these young boys and girls with different value systems and family background do face a lot of difficulties in their adjustment , which in absence of proper counseling and advice usually get mishandled by various elements including over-enthusiastic so-called social workers who may not be quite well versed with human psychology or social pathology or even by law knowing people due to their professional bias which sometimes can result in more controversies and subsequent divorces. Of course living separately as a nuclear family where there is only a little or even no guidance and help to resolve any friction , or even in a joint family with incompatible income structures, intolerance and lack of understanding too can be a serious cause for such a breakdown of marital relations.
Be it inter-caste or inter-community or Inter-religious marriages, or divorces, both are, in their own manner, disintegrating the family and social structure of community which otherwise has been comparatively quite a well knit one prior to exodus. While exodus has already given a serious blow to the integration and cohesiveness of the community, inter-caste marriages, divorces and even political factors have affected its social structure very badly. It is very essential for the social scientists and social leadership of the community to come forward and save the situation. General guidance and counseling, marriage counseling, family counseling by professionally qualified and trained people can help the community. But unfortunately there are no such centers available in the community or the society at large, or even if there are any people have no knowledge or information about such help centers. And also, before such a helping hand can come forward the parties concerned due to ignorance, anxiety, fear and even shame, unfortunately, fall in the hands of the untrained so-called social workers, and legal advisors or even pirs and fakirs who capture the cases to gain name, fame, and money. Most of such divorce cases get spoiled by unwarranted interference of over-enthusiastic people and biased approach. There is an urgent need to collect full data of all such divorce cases and analyze these individually from social, psychological, economic and other related points of view for comprehensive remedial measures to save a family. Setting up of such a counseling centre is very essential, where qualified, matured, senior persons can help these needy families.
(C ) Sale Of Properties
While the government has failed to attract the displaced back to their homes by offering no economic avenues, employment packages or job opportunities or taking any other concrete measure for their rehabilitation and survival in the Valley, the land of their birth and origin, the community too has created a difficult situation for itself in this return process by selling the immovable properties. Of course, the displaced had scores of genuine reasons and causes to sell off their properties as these were either burnt down or were being illegally usurped by unscrupulous elements, encroached upon by miscreants or even illegally occupied by vested interests as the government machinery and local administration, which was responsible for the protection of the migrant property, had failed to protect the same. Perhaps a section of the displaced people could have saved the situation and avoided the distress sale, but did not do so. Most of the displaced sold their properties under duress, panic, force or even allurement and fear of losing it ultimately in case they failed to return. They sold their properties at throw away price and are now repenting over it. Though the government has enacted a law to stop this distress sale under the J & K Migrant Immovable Property (Preservation, Protection and Restraint on Distress Sales) Act 1997 but due to some loopholes in the Act a middleman can be arranged as an attorney to sell the property without any questioning by the administration. Thus the government has exposed its own mala-fide in protecting and preserving the migrant property, by encouraging such a sale process through an attorney, as even today all these sale deeds are taking place  through the very local administration via an attorney under section 3 of the very Act. In spite of several pleas government has taken no measures either to cancel these distress sales or improve upon the defective Act.
Sale of properties has virtually closed the doors of the valley for the displaced and is a very discouraging factor in their return; unless government takes some concrete and drastic move to reverse the process and restore the status quo as it existed in January 1990.
Why does not the government modify the existing Act and make it more comprehensive and effective by removing the loopholes in it or come out with an ordinance canceling all distress sale deeds made after 1990 and for future ban, at least for a couple of years, (barring some exceptional helpless cases which can be allowed after proper scrutiny and assessment of need etc.) all sales of the migrant properties even through an attorney? and simultaneously making the concerned Deputy Commissioner of the District personally responsible for the maintenance, protection and preservation of the migrant properties, to avoid any illegal and unauthorized occupation of the property.
( D) Ignoring ,Kashmiri Language (the Mother Tongue)
Added to these above detailed factors which are affecting the community negatively, the impact of exodus upon its language and literature is obvious. After its exodus from the valley the community had to use local/national language for interaction and communication with non-Kashmiri people, who did not know Kashmiri. Gradually during the years the place and role of Kashmiri language in day to day interpersonal communication and relations (which extended beyond the community circles) got slowed down, reduced and replaced though not lost. While initially it was essential to interact in local language /Hindustani, it almost became a fashion and matter of pride to speak in English, Hindi, or even local language if one could, and avoid Kashmiri. Gradually the trend developed strong roots. Children, because of their interaction with non-Kashmiri speaking friends, playmates and class fellows were forced to speak in Hindustani. If today one asks a youngster if he/she knows Kashmiri, can speak it, the usual answer is "I can understand a little but cannot speak" This is perhaps because the parents and elders do not try to speak in Kashmiri among themselves or with their children at home. (Almost same is the position in the Valley too, where too speaking in Hindustani has now become a fashion) Even those who spend a lot of time and energy in promoting the cause of Kashmiri language have by and large failed to protect it in their own homes. They themselves may be speaking in Kashmiri but their children find it difficult to talk in Kashmiri or even answer a telephonic call in Kashmiri. Of course outside homes, there may not be much chances of expressing oneself in Kashmiri, but they can at least interact and speak in Kashmiri language at home, household and family and community functions etc.
Obviously, if the community in Diaspora loses its language, what is left of it and how can it claim to belong to a particular region and place?
I am here reminded of a very interesting, though somewhat rough, incident which took place many years back in the office of a Deputy Commissioner. A gentleman had come to collect his State Subject Certificate from the office of the Deputy Commissioner of his district. He had returned from some foreign country after a couple of years and would use quite a bit English in his interaction with the people in the concerned office including the Commissioner. Of course, in between he would talk in the local language as well. The commissioner took a fancy over the mixture of language the gentleman was using. He asked him to prove his identity that he was a local person. The gentleman was surprised and stressed that he was a local person and was speaking local language. Speaking in English he told the Commissioner "Don't you see I am talking in my own local language" Commissioner laughed. "No you are talking in English, but occasionally in local language" so I cannot certify that you are a resident of this place and a state subject. The gentleman was somewhat baffled. Talking in English quite fluently and in between in his mother tongue the local language, he pleaded that his certificate be issued. But the Commissioner would not relent. "You see if you do not know your own language, mother tongue fully you cannot claim to belong to this place. Any foreigner or outsider can learn this much of local language (or any language) with in a few years of stay here. So how can I say that you are a resident of this place by birth. Give me some definite proof that you know the local language fully. The gentleman was amused as well as somewhat irritated. He asked him "Should I then use some typical words in local language?" "Please, go ahead"; the gentleman smiled "Really!" and came out with some typical local foul and rough words, bad abusive and slangy language. The Commissioner was laughing, "Yes you have now proved that you know the language and belong to the land. Every language has rough, foul, words and there is slang in every language. And obviously only he who is born, hears and is brought up in that language can learn these words along with the language. I was just testing whether you know and remember your mother tongue or not, because mother tongue is the only link a man can have with his place of birth and origin. If you forget your own mother tongue you cannot claim to belong to the land. Please have a cup of tea and do not mind my grilling. I was just testing you, as your uncle had already told me about your craze for English language. Your Certificate is already ready and signed". The Commissioner called the office superintendent and asked him to hand over the State Subject Certificate to the gentleman.
If the K.Ps are serious to return to Kashmir, progress and prosper and maintain their identity as a community they will have to reverse the trend of forgetting their mother tongue. The elders have to ensure that the young ones learn Kashmiri. Also the younger generation too should be eager to learn Kashmiri language if they are serious in putting their claim upon the culture, ethos, land and history of Kashmir.
(E) Script and Language
Unfortunately, while talking about language one more disheartening and discouraging feature in this regard has been the script. While the official script for Kashmiri is what is called Nastaliq (used in Persian/Urdu languages) K. Ps by and large do not know the script, and find it difficult to use it. While some percentage of K. P men do know the Nastaliq script and can read and write it, the women folk of the community are completely ignorant about it. The younger generation finds it all the more difficult rather impossible to use this Nastaliq script because they have not studied it at all. This way while on one hand the younger and next generation of K. Ps will miss the pleasure of reading Kashmiri literature and poetry (being produced by Kashmiri writers mainly in Nastaliq script), they will not be in a position to help its promotion and advancement, for its expression is limited to particular script alone.
It is a matter of great pleasure that the community has produced a lot of literature during these years of exile, which probably it would not have been able to do in the valley. There has been almost an explosion of writers, poets and journalists. Whole scene and shape of the literary world has undergone a sea change. These writers are using English, Hindi in Devnagri script as well as Urdu in Nastaliq script to express themselves, which has made Kashmiri literature quite rich. However, it needs efforts for its expansion and increase in its readership.
Some time back when K.P. writers and others who write mainly in Devnagri script demanded that Devnagri script too may be officially approved as an additional (second) script for Kashmir language , so that the Kashmiri literature is made available to those readers who do not know Nastaliq there was a hue and cry against the demand. It was quite a logical demand which would mean expansion of Kashmiri literature and poetry and help it to reach those corners where Nastaliq is not much known, but Devnagri script has a hold. Thereby not the K.P. community, but Kashmiri literature and poetry and ultimately Kashmiri language itself would gain a lot. But unfortunately, the move was opposed to the extent that it took almost a political shape with latent communal vibrations. While majority of the K. P. women writers use Devnagri script only for writing in Kashmiri language , Kashmiri Muslim women use mainly Nastaliq script , not because it is the official script but because they have been taught it to read Urdu language to facilitate the reading of Holy Quran, in Arabic language.
Obviously , any unbiased reasonable person with an open mind can well understand and appreciate that a language can progress , flourish and expand and its literature reach different corners if it is presented in different languages by translating it , or reproducing it by presenting in different scripts of the same language. After all when we translate great works of literature, poetry, prose and dramas or even other scientific or non-scientific subjects what do we actually do; use different languages and scripts. This makes literature richer and is helped to reach different societies, countries, cultures and so on. This way we expand the literature. These translations or reproductions do not in any manner damage or harm the original manuscripts, publications and works .What is Kashmiri language and literature going to lose and how we are we going harm the great poetry of Mahjoor , Srukhs of Nund Rishi or Vaakhs of Lala Ded if we present these in both (officially accepted scripts) Nastaliq as well as in the Devnagri; how does Jyanpeeth Award winner Rehman Rahi's poetry, or other works suffer or Hamid Kashmiri's writings suffer if these are made available in officially approved Devnagri script too to those Kashmiris (and non-Kashmiris) also who do not know Nastaliq or is translated into other languages including Hindi where Devnagri scrip is used. And how can Kashmiri language and literature be damaged or harmed or importance of Nastaliq reduced if Devnagri too is accepted as an additional official script along with the Nastaliq? Those who oppose the use of Devnagri script as an additional script must rethink and change their mindset. Any controversy over the script can lead to a lopsided development of the language which cannot be a healthy sign for it. Language is for communication, conveying ones, ideas, thoughts experiences, sentiments and even feeling and emotions etc and literature is a means to carry it to different corners. Let the language and its literature flourish in as many forms as possible as a means of communication. Languages or the scripts evolved over millions of years of evolution and progress do not belong to any community, country sect or section of society alone. These are for universal use and means to communicate and express. One can only hope and pray that this confrontation and opposition is not on account of any fellowships, awards and prizes, which might get shared and divided if both the scripts are officially accepted and used or because of any communal and political bias that would be too narrow minded and immature approach). Let not the issue of script limit the expansion of Kashmiri literature, poetry, drama etc and thereby limit the language itself.
Also if the Kashmiri Pandits want to really help the Kashmiri language to develop they must learn both the scripts – Nastaliq as well as Devnagri.
( F ) Mushroom Growth of Organisations
After partition of the country and installation of popular rule in J&K State the Kashmiri Pandits had been moving out of the Valley, slowly but steadily, to seek better avenues outside the State, and comparatively in a better social and political environment. But those who moved out would keep a good contact and liaison with the Valley, their relatives, friends, local Muslim population and so on. There was no ill feeling or bitterness on any account at the social level. Relation at both the levels inter – community as well as intra-community level were healthy and cordial. And the two sections of the K.P. community, those in the Valley and those who would be moving out would not normally interfere or bother too much about each other, as both sections were comparatively happy and comfortable at their own places. So not much conflict.
If the militants would not have resorted to this gun culture in 1990 with horrible slogans against the community, a vast majority of the Kashmiri Pandits would have otherwise also moved out during these two decades as admission to professional courses was gradually getting reduced, avenues of employment gradually shrinking with political manipulations and due to other social and political factors which were bound to effect the future of the community in the Valley etc. However, in that case, probably there would not have such an open communal divide, and the community would not have been forced to sell its properties and an environment of cordial relations would have continued as in the past, though political differences would also exist, but these would not be so damaging, destructive and horrifying as these are today. Of course after the damage is done attempts are being made to mend the ways and bridge the gap. Let us hope for a better and healthy reunion. Better late than never.
Coming to the community affairs, it lived a comparatively peaceful simple life till 1990 when it was forced to leave. Prior to the present exile the community had the historical organization the All State Kashmiri Pandit Conference (Shri Sanatan Dharm Yuvak Sabha) founded in 1930 or so, with its Headquarters at Shrika Bhawan Sheelnath, Srinagar as its main social organisation with obvious political contours and manifestations when need would arise; though there were smaller sabhas and temple committees as well, at different headquarters, but all were directly or indirectly related with the activities of the ASKPC (SDYS) as the main representative body of the community. It was also running a newspaper MARTAND, whose publication is presently suspended, but it is being said that its publication will be soon resumed. Hope so. It is presently functioning from Jammu.
The community had another social organisation named Sudhar Samiti, Chota Bazar, Srinagar which was concerned with the social and religious activities mainly. It is presently functioning from Durga Nagar Jammu.
Then in 1984 another organization under the name of All India Kashmiri Pandit Conference was born. It is functioning from Delhi with a camp office at Jammu.
The Community has another organization at Jammu named Kashmiri Pandit Sabha Ambphalla. It was founded in 1914 with a limited aim to work as a meeting centre for the K.P. Community members who would be moving to Jammu during winter months. It has done a lot of work for the community and is getting stronger day to day.
Then the community had regional sabhas etc. in different states looking after the community interests in their respective regions.
At the national level the All India Kashmiri Samaj (AIKS) was founded in late 1970s. It has established its Headquarters at New Delhi. With affiliated units throughout the country and even abroad it is working hard to be an apex organisation of the community at global level. It has also set up a Trust as ALL INDIA KASHMIRI SAMAJ TRUST, for the economic uplift of the community. It is which is working under a separate Board and has its own Constitution.
All have been functioning quite smoothly within their limited parameters and powers, though after exodus of the Kashmiri Pandits from the valley their activities have increased and even mode of working changed to some extent.
However after 1990 the whole scenario underwent a sea change. The community saw the birth of a new organization Panun Kashmir, with a definite political thought and slogan quite suitable to the occasion, but unfortunately after moving too fast it stumbled and hurt itself and broke into at least three factions all working separately and the slogan of a Separate Homeland having lost most of its sheen. May be it revives and functions effectively once again.
Then there has been a mushroom growth of smaller and bigger organizations forums, groups etc. under different names and banners. Each camp, each phase, each locality where the displaced are lodged has given birth to an outfit. Working on different parameters all these smaller or bigger forums claim to work for the community, but there is no coordination, and the community continues to live as refugees in its own land. There are camp and non-camp forums too One fails to understand what prompts every body to launch a new front, a new forum. What are the forces and compulsions for such a growth of community bodies? One can only pray that the community is not being used by some vested interests. The community leadership and each and every responsible member has to be vigilant about all such moves.
This mushroom growth of organizations at different levels without any real coordination is very damaging and harmful for the community. No upmanship will be helpful. Each and every time the community leadership talks of unity and unified action but at ground level there is very little meeting ground. This word unity has been deluding the community since long and is working only as a mirage. It was suggested several times that instead of talking about unity, let the leadership talk of a common minimum program and work on that probably that itself may bring in some unity.
Now some of the community activists have entered into a sort of cyber war. Those who are connected to the internet must be observing this cyber war which does not bode well. Some of them are fighting virtual enemies on the screen of a computer, without knowing and seeing the opponent physically, but the war is going on. It simply pains one to go through all this. It is all a clash of egos and lack of rationality. Hope these cyber warriors will stop all this infighting for the sake of sanity. It is an appeal. We are very good fighters, but let this fighting spirit be reserved for future to fight the real enemy of the nation and which has thrown the community out, and not fight each other.
What is Needed
(a) Economic Independence
Notwithstanding the minority character of the community (about which I am not writing here) due to its miniscule population, which is a serious cause for its suffering, the other main cause of our suffering is its economic dependence. So long as the community remains economically dependent and does not gain economic independence it cannot become a force and it will continue to suffer. If I am not misunderstood, Kashmiri Pandits were a victims of a sinister disinformation campaign that the community had usurped most of the government jobs (without analyzing the share of the community in business , trade, tourism and other commercial activities and so on) with the result that other communities had no chance to get in. The community became a special target of violence in Kashmir both for political, religious as well as bureaucratic reasons. Here the community cannot ignore that along with the K.Ps, other Hindus (non-K.Ps) and Sikhs too had to leave the Valley, but since these sections of society were comparatively economically quite impendent, being in trade, business and transport etc. exodus did not become such a painful and troublesome experience for them for resettlement, as it became for the K. Ps. Being economically independent these non-K.P. displaced people gradually established themselves comfortably. Even those a few among the K. Ps who were economically independent, too did not undergo such a suffering or disturbance as the general masses. If the community has to rise and prosper it will have to make itself economically independent.
My experience in public life for the last over forty years tells me that the community needs a very sound and healthy economic base to be a force, a power. A very strong base will make it a strong a political entity and then it will not have to think of any separate political party of its own, which can not obviously serve any purpose but only divide the community on the issue. If the community becomes economically very strong and powerful that itself will make the entire community a very strong political force and place it at such an advantageous position where, its voice will be heard and its views given due recognition and it can even dictate terms. Community leadership, organizations and individuals who can play any effective role in this direction must work out on this plan to give the community a very strong economic base. Obviously this cannot be achieved so long as the community moves in a fixed groove of service oriented, secured monthly fixed income mentality. The community has to be adventurous in economic field, take to business and other independent channels and not continue to the glued to the charm of an office chair with a service mentality as an employee with fixed salary. Why cannot the community leadership think of setting up big business houses to provide this strong economic base. There are enough community resources to create such business houses, and make community economically independent. To begin with, with all the resources available with the community it can easily set up a bank, a financial institution of its own but….? fear those who are sitting on these resources will not allow the community to touch their treasuries and enter their fiefdoms. Of course, there is a large number of K.Ps who have established themselves quite well in foreign countries. If only a few of them can come forward and invite some affluent K.Ps. from India to join them they can plan to lay such a strong economic base for the community which I have been advocating from time to time. Some one has to initiate the process. If a doctor from South can send his whole life's savings amounting to $ 20 million to his native village, why cannot some quite well off Kashmiri Pandits living abroad and earning well think on these lines. Those K.Ps. connected with the economic field, industries ,trade, business and commerce can come forward, form an opinion group prepare a project report to give a practical shape to what I have expressed above. The community has to think of producing Birlas, Tatas, Ambhanis, Mittals and Singhanies and the like. They are the political power, political force today who virtually run the government, though without any separate political party of their own. Create this infrastructure then see the results. The community has to learn from Parsis on one hand and from the Jews on the other.
This needs a strong leadership with a vision and potential, capable of drafting plans and projects and taking definite decisions, which will not become a tool in the hands of political forces. Then a group of honest, dynamic, dedicated young men and women with a vision and confidence. The community has to develop a sense of integrity and self respect and learn how to trust each other.
(b) Need for a Sense of Social Awareness and Responsibility
Along with this strong independent economic base there is a great need to create a strong social cohesiveness. How can this be created unless there is a feeling of concern. There is a great need to create a strong social awareness, community feeling (not for political use), create a sense of social responsibility which we lack to a large extent at present. I am sorry to say our community members have been spending lavishly on marriages (unfortunately liquor too is now served in such functions) without thinking its impact upon the total society, its ethical and moral values, and its effect upon the community especially the poor neighbour, relation, acquaintance who cannot exhibit such an expensive and lavish show of wealth. Surprisingly even on the occasion of death some people have been seen making these rites and rituals as well, too lavish and showy. Our lack of social awareness, lack of social responsibility or concern for others, even as simple human beings, is quite visible. Show of wealth by a selected section of community (even if earned by honest means) does not bode well for the community. When I asked a newly married girl who was quite poor and had to borrow money or seek financial help for her marriage as to why she was wearing so much of gold and exhibiting it ( Lo ! she had quite a good lot on her body) and why her family had made very showy arrangements at the reception of barat with DJ music and variety of dishes (both Kashmiri as well as non-Kashmiri) in a costly marriage hall when they could not afford it and the family had gone for loan/sought financial help from friends and relatives she retorted back by saying " You rich men and big people feel jealous of a poor man doing all this and wearing of all the gold by a newly married woman, When you rich people will stop this show of ill gotten wealth, poor people will automatically follow. Poor people are forced to do what rich people are doing and follow them". I felt somewhat hurt and told her "Sorry, as you know I am not a rich man and every rich man does not have only ill gotten money" and wanted to change the topic, but she wanted to speak something. "Yes, I know all rich speak like that", and started talking a lot about rich people though she was right to some extent in her observations and remarks, but it just pained me what she said, and in a fit of anger told her "but rich people do not take loan or seek financial help". "Yes, that may be true, and why should they borrow, as they have enough ill gotten money" she said. Feeling somewhat uncomfortable, I did not want to enter into an argument and changed the topic. I leave it to the honorable reader to make his/her own judgment.
Introspection and self probing may help to save the situation to a large extent. Let each one of us realize that he is responsible for his behaviour. If each one of us tries to behave as socially responsible human beings at individual levels, society will automatically take care of itself because we are the society. Let each responsible member of the community ask himself/herself, question his/her own  conscience as to how much responsible he/she feels towards others and even towards his /her own self, as each one is responsible for his/her behaviour.
Conclusion
Inter-caste marriages, divorces, lucrative jobs beyond the borders of the State or even abroad in a free, democratic, secular and secured environment coupled with the distress sale of properties, forgetting his mother tongue and absence of any serious effort by the government for his economic survival in the valley are some of the factors which are taking away a Kashmiri Pandit from his land. If his roots really call him back, then he has to pay due attention to the call and in the process obviously resolve all those issues which have come up and are taking him away from his roots. Having suffered very badly and sacrificed beyond measure he has to sacrifice more to reclaim his roots in the land of Kashyap Reshi.
If Kashmiri Pandits want and feel really serious (not for political interests) that the community should survive and flourish then every individual member has to work silently and seriously at his/her own place in his/her own manner within his/her capacity to give a break to various disintegrating factors and keep a watch that the community is not exploited by vested interests working under different garbs.